Traditions And Rituals Performed In Muslim & Islamic Wedding
Here are the rituals that Islamic
weddings follow: Ϯ
Wedding is like a religious obligation in Islam, and
it is the contract between the wedded couple and Allah at the time of Nikkah.
Hence, marriage has two main events, including Nikkah and Walima.
Muslim
wedding has many cultural and religious traditions which are very important to
know for someone who is attending marriage first-time or doing first marriage.
Further, the wedding creates a chaotic mess if it will not orderly arrange, and
careful planning was not part of the process.
I am just going to list here all the rituals and traditions of a Muslim wedding, and I will give a brief description of all the traditions.
First meeting and Proposal or Imam Zamin
The
groom's family visited the bride's house, and finally, when both families
agree, an event conducted in the bride's house. However, the groom's parent
asks for the hand of the bride just for formality. Moreover, after this,
according to family tradition, refreshment served to the guest.
The
first meeting usually happens on the first night in arranged marriages. But in
some families, the first meeting arranged for couple understanding. It will be
a little awkward, but you can reduce the awkwardness by asking some questions
about his/her future.
Engagement party
and Bestman/ Bridesmaid
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After the agreement between two families an engagement(Mangni)
party held. However, it is a promise between
both families. Further, the couple has not enough freedom to contact each other
via text or call.
Most
couples invite their loved ones for bridesmaid and groomsmen/Bestman. Moreover,
the wedding is incomplete without a maid of honor and the handsome Bestman.
Further, they provide emotional support to the groom and bride in the whole
wedding.
Nikkah
It
is the legal contract between the bride and groom. However, the couple gives
consent to marriage according to their own will. They sign a paper agreement to
share their responsibilities and to give each other rights.
Munh
dikhai is the ceremony of " Showing face first time" the groom
sees the face of the bride in the mirror, or the bride unveils her face after
Nikkah.
It
is the tradition in some of the Pakistani families that there is a delay in
rukhsati after Nikkah. Hence this tradition called Choor.
Dholki
is the tradition in Punjab where the girls and women gather in the wedding
house. Furthermore, they sing songs and dance with percussion instruments
before the actual wedding day. Besides this, it sometimes combined with the
Rasam-e-Henna.
Mehndi and Gharoli
Mehndi
is the Rassam-e-Henna in which the paste applied onto the hands of the bride
and groom. However, this event arranged separately in the bride and groom's
house at night before the actual wedding day.
Scarves
are the flowered dupattas under which the bride and groom walked and reached on
the stage prepared for Mehandi.
Doli
contains henna and two candles on silver plates and delivered by the bride and
groom's relatives.
Gharoli
is the ornamented pitcher brought by the bride's brother's wife for the bath of
the bride. After this tradition, the bride and groom restricted to meet each
other.
On
the same day, the bride receives gifts from the groom's family known as Barri,
and the gifts from the bride's family known and Daaj.
Barat and Shadi
Barat
is the groom's procession. The groom with his family and friends go to visit the
bride's house. Moreover, the groom goes on the decorated horse now it replaced
with cars. The Barat received with the band, and flower petals throw on the
groom procession.
Doodh
Pilai is the ritual in which the sister-in-law gives decorated glass filled
with milk to groom. Furthermore, the groom gave an envelope containing a gift
to her.
Shadi
is the ceremony after Nikkah, which includes a dinner or lunch given by the
bride's family to the guests. Moreover, friends of the bride snatch or hide the
shoe of the groom and receive money for giving back.
Rukhsati and
Welcome
Rukhsati
is the farewell ceremony in which the bride leaves her home city and her
parents assist her to the groom's car. Hence, it is a very emotional event.
The
bride welcomed by the groom's sisters and mother in his house. However, Khara
is carrying a water pot on the head of the bride. Moreover, the youngest
brother of the groom holds or sits on the knee of the bride. The bride gave a
gift to him.
Suhaag Raat and
Walima
Suhaag
Raat is the first night of the bride and groom which they are going to spend
together. If they are less familiar with each other, it causes anxiety. For
this, the couple goes to the hotel and in the groom's family house.
Walima
is the final event that publicizes the marriage, and it is the first event
hosted by the bride and groom as husband and wife.
Maklawa and
Honeymoon
After
one, two days of marriage, the relatives gather and bring the bride from the
groom's house to his father's house. However, it declared as the closing
ceremony of the marriage.
Honeymoon
is the cultural tradition of some Muslim families in which the newly wedded
couple goes to the desired destination. Some other traditions also performed,
and then the newly wedded couple receives an invitation of parties from
relatives. These traditions performed at the Muslim wedding.
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